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#Pink October: Su
 Su, a breast cancer survivor, wearing the Alsou Dress.Â
âWhen I was diagnosed with stage 2, breast cancer 7 years ago, I couldnât quite wrap my head around it, even when I went for an operation. How could it be possible when I led a healthy lifestyle? I had a good family with two healthy young daughters and no work related stress.Â
What broke me was when the doctor told me I had to receive chemotherapy treatments. That was the first time I had tears in my eyes. This sounds a little ridiculous but as a lady, I want to look beautiful! It was very difficult for me to grasp the idea of losing all of my hair. After consulting many different doctors, even ones in Singapore, they confirmed that the only way I could be treated was through chemotherapy. I couldnât deny it any longer; I just had to face it.Â
Typically with chemotherapy, hair starts falling out two weeks after the first injection. I took the plunge and shaved my entire head. When I got home, my youngest daughter who was 7 years old at the time took one look at me and started crying at my new appearance. This broke my heart, I felt like an alien in my own home. From then on, my daughters slept with their father while I slept alone. As a family, we slept this way until my treatment was completed. On the bright side, I found a beautiful wig, which gave me a hairstyle I've never had!
I tried to turn negativity into positivity. I found God through this challenging period and I thank Jesus for being by my side through this entire experience. Supportive people surrounded me, from my husband who accompanied me for all the treatments and sat beside me while I was put on drips, to my boss who generously offered financial support. He issued me a check and told me to buy whatever I needed with the money to ease things for me. I also had the support from my friends at the Pink Ribbon Foundation. There is always someone there to support you when you feel like youâve hit rock bottom.
I recovered, but towards the end of the 5 year âdanger periodâ, I was diagnosed with Thyroid complications. I was prepared for another round of fighting â Iâd beaten cancer once, I could do it again! Luckily for me, it turned out to be not cancerous, and went away with medication after about a year. I am completely healed now and I live by the tagline, ânever be a victim, and always be a fighter!ââ - Su
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#Pink October: WonderWomanWednesday â Moei Ho
 Moei Ho, a breast cancer survivor wearing the Laverne Dress.
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âI first noticed the lumps on my breasts in mid 2008 but refused the use of any western medicine. Instead, I opted for traditional Chinese medicine to try to cure it. But with no progress, I realized it couldnât be delayed any longer and went for an operation in November 2008. My breast cancer was at stage 3.
I remembered asking God, âWhy does it have to be me? What have I done in the past to deserve this cancer? Was I a terrible person?"
The chemotherapy sessions took the most out of me. I was in terrible shape, physically, mentally and emotionally. It made my body very weak and I lost most of my appetite. This was amplified by the ulcers that had formed in my mouth due to the treatment as well as lack of sleep.
What helped me the most with overcoming this bleak period of my life was the encouragement from my friends and family. They constantly told me that I have to face this instead of giving up and that I have to stay strong. There were still many more things I wanted to do with my life and I couldnât die just yet!
Every morning during my cancer period (and even now), I would wake up early to exercise at the nearby park, whether itâs doing chi gong or to climb the hill. I love the feeling of the morning sun when it hits my skin; it instantly lifts my mood even during bad days. I do take an enjoyment from climbing hills despite the path being difficult at times. For instance, it could be too steep but I see it as a reflection on life. If the road gets tough, you shouldnât give up, you should persevere and try to overcome the obstacle presented in front of you.
I was originally a tailor who sewed uniforms. But because of this cancer, I had to eat mostly organic food, which led me to the decision of opening my own organic food store! Because of this, I could also help people facing similar problems by becoming their one-stop shop and source for healthy food! 6 years have gone by since Iâve beaten breast cancer and Iâm glad I survived It.â â Moei Ho
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Visit Moei Hoâs organic food store:
Billion Organic Home, 42G Lorong Haruan 5/2, Oakland Commerce Square, 70200 Seremban, Negeri Sembilan.
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Pink October: #WonderWomanWednesday â Casey Chu
Casey, a breast cancer survivor, wearing the Andie Dress.Â
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"My name is Casey Chu, and I am 27 years old. I discovered a lump on my right breast in April of last year. Cancer was the last thing on my mind. I was young, and supposed to be at the peak of my life. In fact, I consulted three different doctors and all three of them told me that the chance of getting breast cancer at my age is very low, and it was probably just swelling.Â
I took a scan because my family has a history of breast cancer, and the tests confirmed it. Cancer, at 26.
Upon receiving the news, my mum broke down crying, and my brother tried to console me by urging me to bawl and let it all out. I remembered asking myself, what's the point of crying? My cancer would still be there even if I did.
Chemotherapy was difficult. I would just vomit uncontrollably for the next three days after each session. The physical pain was incredible, and I don't wish that upon anyone.
Emotionally, it was no walk in the park either. Twice, I broke down crying. The first time was when my mum wept because she couldn't accept the fact that her child had cancer. She prayed and begged God to take her instead of me, and my heart just broke. I understood her anguish, though. I can't imagine seeing her suffer from cancer, too.
The second time I broke down was when my doctor advised me to take half a year off from work to rest. Something as innocuous as that, and yet I wept! I suppose it was the apparent finality of it - like this is it, i'm not even useful to society anymore. I simply couldn't accept the fact that I could not go to work!
It's been a few months since I officially beat cancer. However, even though it's in remission, I know that there's a possibility that it could come back to bite me again. So I've vowed to enjoy my life each and every single day - there's no bigger incentive to do so than having stared cancer down. First step: I've already made travel plans for next year!" - Casey
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The Trick To Looking Bustier
Many women with small breasts have likely never found a bra that snugly fits with the appropriate depth and width. They exhaustively search for the perfect bra because having small breasts and not wearing a bra can make one feel somewhat less womanly (not that you need a bigger bust to be more womanly!). Fortunately, there are many options out there and it doesnât mean resolving to a heavily padded bra that makes you feel like a pillow was strapped to your chest. It also doesnât have to be going under the knife just to have some added cleavage.
Some tech-savvy women rely on the âliquifyâ tool on Adobe Photoshop as well as the multiple apps available on smart phones to enlarge and lift their breasts in pictures. However this only applies to still images and canât be translated into real life. Also imagine going through hundreds of pictures taken on a beach vacation and editing every one of them!
Photoshop magic. Image taken from www.wjunction.com.
There is also the option of using cosmetics to create a more pronounced cleavage. Dark shades are applied to areas of your cleavage where shadow should fall whereas lighter shades are used to highlight. The cons to this are that your make up might run throughout the course of the day and stain your favorite white top as well as that it takes a certain level of skill to perfect this contouring art.
Kylie Jennerâs breasts contouring make-up mishap. Image taken from www.dailymail.co.uk.
When it comes to bras, there are so many available options to choose from as well as so many different types of padding. A bra with an underwire gives a slight, natural boost and there are silicon pads that you could fit into your bra to create a fuller, heavier breast.
Besides a regular push-up bra, there is the âInvisible Braâ. This undergarment is seamless, strapless, and backless, making it look beautiful under your clothes. Thereâs no hassle of hiding your bra straps every time you wear an off-shoulder top or having your bra fastening seen when adorning your favorite backless dress. The additional cleavage is a great bonus. You can be ballerina-flat-and-perky in a tank top one minute and bursting out like a corseted burlesque dancer next.
We put our own VS Invisible Bra to the test on four real-life women with different breast sizes without the help of tape or body contouring;
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Cherylâs Original Bra Size: 32A
âI accept that I am flat-chested but seeing a little shadow between my breasts with the help of the VS Invisible Bra actually makes me feel quite womanly! Itâs great that I have this option especially when it comes to wearing V-necked dresses.â
Leeahâs Original Bra Size: 34A
âBeing a petite woman with naturally small breasts, I canât believe how much of a difference the VS Invisible Bra looks compared to the bra I usually wear on a daily basis. Itâs fun seeing how much more flattering and fuller they look.â
Michelleâs Original Bra Size: 34D
âI am already quite busty to begin with but the VS Invisible Bra offers the same support a normal under-wired bra provides me with. The plus side of wearing this bra is being able to wear strapless and backless dresses without committing the crime of straps being shown!â
Sherlyn Tanâs Original Bra Size: 32A
Our founder, Sherlyn Tan, recently put the VS Invisible Bra to the test. Who wants their invisible bra to fall off during an important event? Itâs important for the invisible bra to be reliable in any conditions it is put under. She wore the bra while exercising followed by taking a dip in the sea to test its reliability.
In addition to looking bustier, the bra remained in-shape after being drenched in sweat and the glue still maintained its stickiness after being submerged in seawater. (We personally do not encourage you to wear the bra to swim or to workout, this is mainly to test its reliability).
The VS Invisible Bra.